Brookhaven Psychotherapy
Family Therapy
Building resilient families.
Does it feel like your family is simply tolerating each other?
Have your family relationships deteriorated over the pandemic? Or are there problems that were long-standing but never fully addressed? Perhaps people in your household are barely speaking to each other, feeling more like roommates than a family? Family therapy may be helpful to address these challenges. The relationships with our family members are unlike any other, and the quality of family relationships drastically affect our sense of self and emotional well-being. Our therapists offer family-based sessions that can help heal conflict, improve communication styles and help with major life transitions (such as a move, death in the family, or teenager leaving for school).
The focus of family therapy is to improve the functioning of the family unit. Family counselling allows space for each individual to express what they need and subsequently feel heard and validated by their loved ones. It is about balancing of perspectives, walking in each other’s shoes, and understanding each other’s behaviours and reactions. Family counselling sessions can involve all family members or just a few.
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Common topics we address in family therapy:
Concerns of blended families
Broken down communication
Separation and Divorce issues
Parenting consultation and skills training
Relationship Difficulties
Addiction or mental health of a family member
Marital or Relationship breakdown
Healing past traumas
Repairing attachment
Substance abuse issues
Major life transitions
What can we expect in Family Therapy?
Family therapy sessions are usually done as a family unit, but your therapist may request individual appointments first to help understand differing perspectives of the collective problems and goals. Once your therapist gathers information from each of you, they will bring everyone together to discuss common ground. Depending on the nature of the problem, your therapist may encourage role playing, games or activities, emotion exploration and attachment-based strategies to help the family work through the presenting issues. To the therapist, the family is the client, and the therapist will therefore remain impartial and neutral while navigating the conflict that brought you all to therapy.
Some of our Family Therapists
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Reanne Burgess
Registered Social Worker / Psychotherapist
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Saakshi Agarwal
Registered Psychotherapist (Q)
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Chris Pimento
Registered Social Worker / Psychotherapist
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Amanda Schmalz
Registered Psychotherapist
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The Role of Family Therapy in Building Resilient Families
Family therapy can address many common issues such as communication breakdown, major life changes, and separation/divorce. Take a deeper dive into how family therapy works.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Family therapy is a form of counselling that focuses on helping the family as a unit, not just one person. Sessions provide an opportunity for everyone to share their needs and be heard and understood by their loved ones. Much of the work involves balancing perspectives, putting yourself in each other's shoes, and making sense of each other's behaviours and reactions. The therapist is not your client; the family is the client, and the therapist is impartial in helping everyone deal with the conflict that brought you in.
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It might be time to reach out when relationships at home have quietly deteriorated, when communication has broken down, or when people feel more like roommates than family. Families also benefit from significant life changes, such as a move, a death, a separation, or a teenager starting school. As therapists, we often see that long-standing issues that were never fully addressed tend to resurface until they're worked through together. Family counselling provides a safe space to mend those relationships before they drift too far apart.
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One of the most common issues we see with families is poor communication, and it's often where the work begins. Your therapist guides everyone in identifying unspoken patterns that can build tension and in finding alternative, more respectful ways to be heard. Communication therapy for families can include role-playing, guided activities, and emotion-focused exercises to ensure that each family member feels understood. Over time, these skills tend to help defuse conflict beyond the initial problem that brought them to therapy.
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Not necessarily; it depends on your family and the concerns you're working through. Sessions are usually held with the whole family, but your therapist may request individual appointments first to understand each person's perspective on the shared goals. Once they've gathered that insight, they'll bring everyone together to find common ground. Some families attend together, while others involve just a few members at a time. Family conflict counselling can be tailored either way.
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Blended families have to make many adjustments, including new roles, different parenting styles, and shifting loyalties. Blended family counselling provides a neutral environment where these conflicts can be addressed and a sense of unity established in a way that is comfortable for all parties. Your therapist can help family members understand each other's reactions and strengthen bonds that take time to develop. The idea is not to eliminate differences, but to make the household run more smoothly and feel warmer.
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Both options are available. You're welcome to meet at our Burlington, Milton, or Oakville offices, or to work with us virtually from anywhere in the province. Online family therapy in Ontario can be especially practical for families juggling different schedules or living in separate households. Virtual sessions provide the same care and structure as in-person sessions. Whichever suits you, your therapist adapts the approach to your family's specific goals.
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If you're searching for “family therapist near me,” we have warm, experienced clinicians across Burlington, Milton, Oakville, and London, plus virtual options throughout Ontario. You're welcome to read our therapists' bios and choose the person who feels like the right fit, or reach out and let us help you get matched. To begin family counselling in Burlington, you can book a free 15-minute consultation with no pressure or obligation. And if Milton is more convenient, a family therapist in Milton is available at our Commercial Street location.

